How To Communicate Without Attacking Posted on September 3, 2026, updated on September 3, 2026 by Dr. John Hawkins, Sr. “We just can’t communicate.” “It always ends in an argument no matter how small the issue is.” “I’m so tired of fighting all the time.” “I just want some peace and I don’t think I’m going to find it in this relationship.” “ I never feel heard or understood, only blamed; everything is always my… Read More
Seven Marriage Myths – Part 2 Posted on June 17, 2026, updated on September 3, 2026 by Dr. John Hawkins, Sr. I said in our last blog that the divorce rate for first marriages is 40%. This represents a lot of pain for couples and their families. How do we bring that rate down? One way is to not fall victim to these myths. Understand the realities of what it takes to build a happy and… Read More
Seven Marriage Myths – Part 1 Posted on May 18, 2026, updated on September 3, 2026 by Dr. John Hawkins, Sr. If believed will sabotage your marriage. Currently only 46% of U.S. adults are married 1, down from two-thirds in 1950. Cohabitation has risen and divorce rates for first marriages are around 40%. At the same time, research shows married adults have higher life satisfaction, better physical health, and even live about two years longer than… Read More
Does Marriage Counseling Work? Posted on June 6, 2025, updated on June 6, 2025 by Gateway Counseling When your marriage feels stuck, painful, or even beyond repair, you might wonder if counseling is even worth it. Will it help, or just stir up more conflict? Does it actually change anything? This is a sacred and deeply personal question. And while no therapist can promise a perfect outcome, the answer for many couples… Read More
