When it’s Hard to Love Posted on September 24, 2018, updated on September 25, 2018 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P. Anyone can love when it’s easy. But what about when it’s hard. When the other person is critical, blaming, or accusatory? In an initial session with a couple, I will frequently hear someone state, “I just don’t know if I love him or her anymore.” My response is often, “You’re about to find out.” When… Read More
Benefits of Premarital Counseling Posted on January 25, 2018, updated on December 28, 2018 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P. Weddings often come with long to-do lists. Often, couples neglect to put one very important detail on that list – premarital counseling. If you plan to get married, then you should consider premarital counseling. In addition to preparing you for your marriage, your counseling can prevent a divorce. Find out why you should consider seeing… Read More
Life Advice by Rabbi Boteach: Why Do Men Cheat? Posted on December 19, 2017, updated on November 16, 2017 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P. One of the most common causes of a failed marriage is cheating. So, it should be no surprise that many women ask themselves, “Why do men cheat?” Although it sounds like a complicated issue, the answer to the question might be simpler than you think. Learn the answer according to Rabbi Boteach. Then, find out… Read More
Effective Divorce Counseling Posted on November 9, 2017, updated on November 7, 2017 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P. Divorce counseling or divorce therapy is counseling that is sought after a divorce. With fifty percent of marriages leading to separation, there are more and more people who need help cooping afterward. Divorce counseling is a way for those people to get the help and closure they need. Often, the dissolution of a marriage can… Read More
