Over the last several weeks, the topic of forgiveness has come up with numerous clients. In my work with these clients, I was reminded again how many misperceptions there are in relation to forgiveness. I have seen distorted views of forgiveness cause people to suffer in a variety of ways. The first of these is… Read More

Furthermore, I want them to be very clear regarding all their options and all the consequences of each of their choices. No matter how difficult the decision, my goal for them is to not come back in several years with regret regarding the choice they made. It is hard, if not impossible, to get this clarity… Read More

After working with over a thousand couples, I can definitively say there is nothing more complex than intimate relationships. There are so many moving parts and subconscious emotions and memories being activated that are the true cause of why we all become so conflicted. There is no way for the average couple to be aware… Read More

Anyone can love when it’s easy. But what about when it’s hard. When the other person is critical, blaming, or accusatory? In an initial session with a couple, I will frequently hear someone state, “I just don’t know if I love him or her anymore.” My response is often, “You’re about to find out.” When… Read More