Divorce is a separation of two people, but their separation affects more than just the two involved – namely their children. Each family and its family members will respond to divorce in a unique way. While some seemingly transition smoothly, others will fall apart. Effects Of Divorce On Children Researchers and psychologists have long debated… Read More

When getting married, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of it all. From ring shopping to choosing a venue to finding a caterer, it’s easy to neglect the one person you should be focusing on most – your future spouse. While figuring out wedding logistics is important, the lead up to the… Read More

John D. Hawkins Jr., M.S., C.A.P., Registered Mental Health Intern According to couple’s researcher John Gottman, the average couple waits six years before seeking assistance from the time they begin experiencing relationship distress. This results in the underlying issue not being adequately addressed and typically intensifying, the growth of anger and resentments, and the increased… Read More

John D. Hawkins Jr., M.S., C.A.P., Registered Mental Health Intern A common psychological defense I see with many of my clients in relationships is denial through fantasy. In this defense, a person denies parts of their reality and relates to the fantasy of who their partner could be, rather than face the reality of who… Read More